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"If
there was one overarching theme to 'True Detective,' I would say it was
that, as human beings, we are nothing but the stories we live and die by
- so you'd better be careful what stories you tell yourself." - Nic
Pizzolatto - Writer
NARRATIVE- is a spoken or written account of connected events; the narrated parts of a literary work, as distinct from dialogue; the practice or art of telling stories; or the representation of a particular situation or process in such a way as to conform to an overarching set of aims or values. A narrator, often the object of the story in a book or film, gives a spoken account that helps the audience relate. The phrase,"change the narrative" means to change the framework within which events are perceived and interpreted. Our perceptions form our personal narrative...the story that we tell ourselves and others. We go on to interpret and often live out whatever that story might
be even if it contradicts for good or for bad, with the facts, the opinions
of others, or the truth of God's Word. This has been true since the
beginning.
Adam willfully sinned by eating the forbidden fruit from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. Then he hid from the Lord."Then the LORD God called to the man and said to him, "Where are you?" He said, I heard the sound of You in the garden and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid myself. And He said, "Who told you you were naked?" Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you not to eat?" The man said, "The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me from the tree, and I ate." (Gen. 3:9-12) Eve had her blame-filled narrative as well, "Then the LORD God said to the woman, "What is this you have done?" The woman said, "The serpent deceived me, and I ate." (vs.
13) Unfortunately, the story they told themselves could not absolve
them of the responsibility for their choices. Maybe that's not your story.
Perhaps you've assumed blame, guilt and shame for something that's
really NOT your fault.
The story we tell ourselves can be crippling or liberating. Everyone around us can believe that we are the best thing since sliced bread, but if we're telling ourselves a different story...that becomes our truth, which will displace any other opinion and rule our lives. What story are you telling yourself about your personal trauma? I
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